question and answer:
it sounds like you are trying very hard to learn proper english. do not try so hard. most people in the usa do not speak it correctly, and if you come to usa, i would work hard to help you understand what is being said, though it is also very difficult for an american to learn mandarin. but i would be there to help you, however i can, even if it is just to help with customs and gestures and things like that. but remember, sometimes you can try so hard to do something, that you miss it altogether. take a step back and take a breath, then look at it from a different angle and try again. this may be what you need to be able to improve your english. don't try so hard. i have heard a saying that i like, "you cannot see the forest because the trees are in the way". see, sometimes a person searches so hard, that they do not realize that what they seek is right in front of them, for what is a forest but a bunch of trees?
my reply:
thank you for your wonderful advice about learning english. god knows how lucky and proud i am to have a chance to meet you on line--such an excellent american. you don't know you're really a philosopher.
since i've never been a woman of strong will, many times i also ask myself why i insist on going for in MLM which seems so difficult. in fact now i feel rather depressed, i have emailed to the rich friend of malaysia about winalite, but he didn't give me any reply till now. you see, only my personal strength is absolutely not enough to pursuade him to understand the value of MLM, not to mention investing his money in MLM.
i think it's very necessary to talk about the reason why i'm so determined to follow my so-called MLM through,just i've told you my once biggest idea was to be a chinese announcer/braodcaster, because i'm always confident of my nomal mandarin.( i had a good mandarin trainning from my mother when i was a child. ) however, unfortunately i couldn't find the related job all along. i've really experienced the bitterness to the fullest extent that one doesn't have the stage/chance to give play to his/her talent.
in those youthful years, i always wandered about seeking my ideal job vainly. every time it proved i was a complete failure, i found i was just the most useless person in this world. apart from speaking mandarin fluently, i was good for nothing. my major was marketing, but i had not any interest in any business at that time. because i was such an honest and shy/passive person, i was unsuitable and had no capabilicity to be a sly and trickish tradesman. oh, my god, i really couldn't survive in cold-blooded society if without the support from my parents. until one day, one of my relatives got a promotion in office, (china is an authority-based society instead of business society. most of traditional chinese people pay more attention to the government officers rather than business people.) he couldn't tolerate my father's repeated request for help, resolved to give me a hand. so i got my present job with a fixed monthly salary.
it certainly wouldn't be a proper job for me, but it also couldn't be better for a person who had no any else way to earn money, even a penny like me. in any case i was just the kinsfolk of the top leader of our superior bureau. how strange and fickle the fate was! just a moment ago i was a beggar, a moment later i could become a princess. for a time i really felt rather good for myself. i gave up dreaming to be a broadcaster, because it was the time to find a proper man to marry. i desired to fall in love with somebody.
at this time, i met my ex-boyfriend who was more than me by 7 years. it was truly rare elder single youth above the nomal marriage age in china just as i am now. he told me he had the golden days in his late 20s, he made a big fortune by buying the stocks in a very short time. in order to earn more money,he resigned his job of being an accounting of a countryside bank and began a full-time investment of stocks even future delivery market. ( i always think it's really rather an unbelievable and funny thing for a small common clerk in a remote place in that age in china to have a chance to own lots of money so easily. because most of chinese people have never heard and known what is the stock system which is the new-born thing accompanyed with the economic reform in china.)
however, the extreme happiness ends in sorrow.soon later he has been losing his money all along. he once picked up with a girlfriend who also became rich by stock investment. after the girlfriend knew the truth that in fact he was just a poor man, she refused to keep in touch with him immediately. now he became a poor jobless person, of course he was unwilling to accept his bad fate. he tried his best to learn english so that he could get a high salary in the foreign enterprise in south of china such as big city guangzhou,shenzhen. oh, i can't really make you understand the current complicated chinese society system.
god knows i was also dreaming to go to prosperous south china swarming a lot of foreign enterprises. you know it's just the reason why the china has a nickname of "the world processing plant". my ex-boyfriend always described the brilliant and wonderful blueprint to me. just imagine if we can have an employment opportunity in some big foreign enterprise, we can have a chance to go abroad and travel all over the world someday,besides earning a lot of usa money. oh, the dream is too splendid and attractive for me.
however, the first and vital requirement to enter a foreign enterprise is one must have good english skills both in written and spoken. my ex-boyfriend has possessed oral english and listenning comprehesion much better than me through several years effort of english, so i supported him whold-heartedly for our common dream.
sometimes he doubt if he couldn't succeed for ever, why should we do? he made the request for marriage, however ,i hesitated! not because i didn't love him, i really appreciated his english talent very much. but he told me he also run into debt in stocks market. i hated his so-called stocks, why did he always want to make money in stock at the risk of martgaging his only remaining property--the house which he bought when he was just a young "nouveau riche" and incurring large debts instead of giving up? he was like a puzzled riddle, i couldn't figure out his ridiculous and feeble-minded behavior by any means, however, the fact that he was proficient in english seemed he was just a learned person full of intelligence. oh, i was really confused, being in a mess! i could marry a poor man, but i couldn't stand to marry a person who's always crazy about gambling. in my mind, frying stocks was just similar to grambling at that time. i didn't realized the stocks was an extensive knowledge in the business society just as most of people haven't realized the MLM is also a new developing trend and a profound knowledge and culture.
later he really had his wishes fulfilled to be a white-collar of the foreign enterprise, he despised me like the rubbish at once. i was not his princess any more! i was just an ignorant country bumpkin. at that time, i really became mad to death. while he had gone to foreine country by airplain, i still had to stay the same backward locked place shrouded in a kind of suffocating primitive culture atmosphere. oh, my god, i've never expected he was such a merciless and cruel person without any pity to me. he completely didn't deserve my great love and deep sympathy when he was down and out and deserted by his rich girlfriend. he gave me a heavy lesson and made me experience the ugliness of human nature sufficiently again. for me there was nothing worth going after and recalling in this world. i really tried to kill myself to end up this kind of boundless desperation. oh, there was no dream, no hope,no love, i was in a complete darkness and arid desert.
thanks to godness, the amway company from usa --a famous international enterprise unexpectedly opened its arms to embrace me warmly. so easily i got the great opportunity to put my eyes on internationalization. from then on i really come into a completely different condition and made the acquaitance with many excellent chinese people containing chinese government officials and superior white-collars in foreign enterprise, scholars, the business boss,etc.
you can't imagine there are a lot of people from all walks of life keening on amway company in china. because even the rich chinese people who have a very high station such as top officers still be regarded mentally low and humble in the developed country like usa. however, the amway company offers the unprecedented respect and glory to chinese people. apart from obtaining very high commissons, the chinese amway elites can have a free luxury travel to different countries all over the world invited by amway company every year.
you see, the MLM is actually a culture struggle! i believe that the MLM culture must be the most superior culture in the whole world. it will be destined to bloom and prosper from the beginning!
although i know it's a very arduous work to convince the rich friend from malaysia to join the MLM now, i still feel he will understand the MLM in the near future.
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