2008年11月26日星期三

A Happy Moment Within A Hopeless Situation

Sometimes one is passing through an utterly sad passage of time due to a business loss , a physical drawback or an emotional setback etc and one feels its the end of the road . Sometimes during such difficult hours some lighter moments , some happy hours come into making . That is when within such hard time one is reminded of some memorable past and this acts as an ingredient enabling one to come out of an otherwise bad situation . This could happen due to ones' own creative ability . The same could also be result of somebody else knowingly or unknowingly creating a situation that helps one out of a hopeless situation temporarily. The whole process involved herein is about a continuity of deferred packets within . It is in sense that atleast a ding dong {sad x happy} situation is created and one keeps going .
Years ago I felt myself in a continuously long time hopeless situation . This being on account of a personal matter I could not speak about it to my associates and aquaintances . Those days I lived away from my kith and kin and soon after in a foreign country all by myself for a long time . Some close relatives / bosom friends , loved ones instinctively familiar with similar real life situations showed concern and provided me / created situations for me so I wouldnt completely succumb to the unavoidable mishap . In this kind of continuous situation there were happy interludes , which sometimes appeared to me as of a completely natural occurance and at times creatively managed by loved ones . My cousins at home ( India ) . In this regard I fondly remember my friends Samina and Vida in London ; Steve Lills and Claudine in NJ America , my most loving friends during my stay abroad . Those of you who read my previous blogs may recollect I made a mention of each of them in separate blogs .
That resulted in improved situation atleast temporarily . So to say, however hopeless a situation , it is not hopeless enough that one should throw all hope and constantly ponder over sadness only .
3rd October 2008 :
Within this situation one gloomy day , my yuwie site open and I sat for hours doing nothing . I felt really hopeless . In an instance I recieved a picture comment from a new yuwie aquaintance , which spelt this :
There are no short cuts to happiness and dancing is one of them . Have you danced lately ? A peaceful day / evening to you !
$ydney
May be generally there are no short cuts to happiness and dancing is one of them yet I do believe in axceptions . There is a thing like an unknown inborn talent that comes to light unwarranted and at times almost instantly . Makes sense to me that dancing is possible the short way and dancing definitely creates happiness . Now I am not a formally trained dancer .
The question within comment was , have you danced lately !
Well years ago I had danced at my nieces' ring ceremony , that was my first time . Amongst several regular dancers once I started dancing I didnt stop and was instantly acclaimed 'Masstt dancer' { dancer in tone } . Since then it is a routine . I love my traditional punjabi bhangra dancing style so too I dance to whatever fast music ...and I really enjoy dancing .
Having recieved above comment from my great friend $ydney , my heart and mind sprung into action throwing gloomdom to winds and I answered my friend $ydneys' comment in instant pleasure .

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